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Originally Posted by Erydan Ouragan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Yes, for most people in EQ, gear is like the size of the penis. Having better gear than someone is like having a bigger dick, it makes them feel better about themselves at the expense of someone else, that's why it's wrong.

Most people's goal is to feel good about themselves and what they have done. It is you that chooses to measure yourself against them and feel like it is happening at your expense. What is wrong is people thinking that others should be brought down to their level so they don't feel bad about their accomplishments. You want to rob someone of the sense of accomplishment at achieving a goal because you aren't secure enough to understand their accomplishment isn't about you.

Originally Posted by Erydan Ouragan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

With defiant gear, every penis is the same size, so no more comparing and thinking they're better than other people. It basically eliminates the hardcore vs casual line of thinking and will foster friendly relationships across the server as a whole.

What you really mean is no more comparing and thinking I'm not measuring up. Nobody can make you feel inadequate, only you. People will always have more or less than you it is what you choose to believe that means about you that matters. What fosters relationships and friendships is acceptance and tolerance for differences.