Is this cheating??

[Henini]

so because she's younger and hot and you got 2 kids... it give her a pass to cheat?

sounds like you need some self esteem or something buddy. and in the long run, you will not be happy in a relationship like this which could be called abusive.
lets face it, if she thinks blowing a stripper is ok, what else is also ok that we and maybe even you don't know...

that was my 2 cp.