You're first on the list!

[Cerzi]

So I'm waiting to join a highkeep group after being told I'm first on the list to replace whoever leaves. Decided to just chill there while I alt tabbed and did a few things, without actually committing to anything major in case a spot freed up.

90 minutes later a spot frees up, and some other bard comes in and takes the spot. I'm a bit annoyed but not too worried, must just be some mistake. But when I ask the party leader I get "RL friend come before a list you know?". The fuck?

Anyway so if "RL friend come before a list" means "don't bother telling anyone on a list that theyre actually not next in line", then I pretty much wont bother with that shit any more, cos what a waste of time.