Returning player, feeling confused

[Itching]

I would personally say play that is fun for you, and can accomplish whatever the goals that you would like to do.

One thing that I have always learned when I started playing on this server is there there is always someone who is willing to lend a hand. They might help you camp something, give free buffs, good advice, start you off with a little gear, or even give you some items to trade.