Help for New Delf Necro!

[Trosh]

Hiya guys and gal (maybe)!

I have a Delf necro, got him to lvl 15 so far, but I was wondering what goals should be in my long-term "to do" list.

I know there are a few items that I want - one of which being a Circlet of Shadow before Velious nerf-hammer descends on it, because supposedly it is killer to have, even if it is super duper expensive, and I won't be able to farm it for 20 lvls which should take me about... a year. I also want a harvester just for pure sexy-ness value.. But are there any other Items that are super important for necros?

I was wandering around the forums and someone was saying something about a clicky stick for a duration lifetap or something, though they never actually said the item name..

Is the epic something I could realistically attempt? I know it seems very difficult with the PoSky stuff and all, but the thought of having a sparkly duck on a stick to wave in people's faces has always appealed to me.

If anyone knows a decent way to make money to try to make my insta-invis dreams come true for a lower lvl player to the server, that would be swell also. I've been farming spiderling silks and killing every bear I see, however I think almost all of that money is going to evaporate towards spells, and the thought of killing 5-6k spiderlings to get the hat makes me sick to contemplate.

Also where should my stats try to head? someone was super nice and gave me some HP rings, but should I aim for 200 int over time? or just try to get +HP/Mana items?

Oh very important: No I don't care about your Iksar's super neato health regen or whatever. You're slimy and everyone hates you. Also Dark Elves are basically just pure sex.

Thanks for any tips and help you can give!
-Elterei, 15th kick ass Necromancer of Innoruuk