Time for me to head out, after this pull.

[Rhambuk]

I agree with OP until 40+ there is almost no warning when people leave and it is disheartening.

I always try to give at minimum a 30 minute notice if I can't find a rep, its really not too much effort.

For the folks that say they have a wife a job a kid etc, hey ya know what its real easy to tell the group when you join that you have a life and might have to go unexpectedly. Whats that you're worried they won't take you into the group because your unreliable? what a bunch of assholes they should definitely cater to your real life and sacrifice their time for you.

It's not hard to let people know you are busy or leaving at a time, entire groups collapse because 1 member just leaves.

I support the blacklist, keep it going and make you're own groups if its an issue.