Can't get charm kite to work >_<

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Adding this in here first as I almost forgot, lvl 15 druid(still,yes I know -_-)

Ok, so I am sure people have read about my issues with me personally not having charm work.

I sat down last time I was on(which was sometime earlier this week I think, work schedule changes are making me insane, stick with me here for a second lol) and timed it out, longest stick of charm I could get on a LB mob was 2m41s, on a db was 2m10s, even con 53s, yellow con 1m50s(lol) and red con, when it finally stuck, a whopping 15 seconds.

Now I know this is also a luck/rng thing, but I obviously have bad luck. Being a druid and having heals/buffs/DS, my bro has a similarly leveled Dwarf pally and we have been playing together.

Being the healer is extremely slow for killing as I am saving my mana and he is not doing as much DPS as even I could snare kiting(we are killing faster so far however and grouping is fun).

My question is, based off of this info, is a classic tank/spank going to work for us or should we go somewhere that I can fear animals while they are snared/dotted and he swings at their backside while they run away? OR would we be good in a place like Befallen where his anti undead spells can shine and I just play healer?

Thanks guys, I know I have a lot of dumb questions and dumber problems on here but any info is helpful.