HBB was this you?

[Alawen]

Originally Posted by Samoht [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

let me point out, again, that these are not the same thing.

black out means your brain is incapable of recording events as memories. you're still capable of being conscious and making decisions.

passed out means that you're capable of doing nothing but sleep.

the post made by the woman leaves her state undefined between the two. i've had a woman black out drunk aggressively come onto me. i've been black out drunk and had sex before.

should i go to jail for position 1? should my partner be in jail for position 2?

not no but hell no.

people need to be held accountable for their own actions and quit trying to pass the responsibility on to those around them. she doesn't know if she agreed or not.



except for when she's the aggressor. you don't drink much, do you? and if you think it's fun to have sex with a partner who just lies there, you don't have sex much, either.

Within one month on RnF, I've been accused of being a closet alcoholic and of not drinking. Nothing like hyperbole to really drive a point home. That's a fallacious appeal to authority: you're not an expert on drinking and certainly not on whether or not I drink.