Time for me to head out, after this pull.

[Rhambuk]

I agree with OP until 40+ there is almost no warning when people leave and it is disheartening.

I always try to give at minimum a 30 minute notice if I can't find a rep, its really not too much effort.

For the folks that say they have a wife a job a kid etc, hey ya know what its real easy to tell the group when you join that you have a life and might have to go unexpectedly. Whats that you're worried they won't take you into the group because your unreliable? what a bunch of assholes they should definitely cater to your real life and sacrifice their time for you.

It's not hard to let people know you are busy or leaving at a time, entire groups collapse because 1 member just leaves.

I support the blacklist, keep it going and make you're own groups if its an issue.

[BigHurb]

You know, the community solution emerging here is reticent of my thread:

http://www.project1999.com/forums/sh...d.php?t=142089

[Wudan]

Originally Posted by Rhambuk [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

entire groups collapse because 1 member just leaves

LOL. You must be joining/leading some weak ass lame groups if they collapse because of 1 member leaving. Last time I was in Crypt we had our tank bail without warning...guess what happened?! Group did not collapse! Yea, I know! Crazy, aint it? Instead, I tanked it on my shaman while LF tank. In most cases there is a way how to overcome 1 member leaving. Cut the bullshit and stop complaining about a non-problem.

[Sylexis]

Most people are going to leave at the drop of a hat when their guild calls, chances are half your group have cap level mains.

[Sidelle]

Originally Posted by BigHurb [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

You know, the community solution emerging here is reticent of my thread:

http://www.project1999.com/forums/sh...d.php?t=142089

^^ *Shameless plug* [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[Rhambuk]

Originally Posted by Wudan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

LOL. You must be joining/leading some weak ass lame groups if they collapse because of 1 member leaving. Last time I was in Crypt we had our tank bail without warning...guess what happened?! Group did not collapse! Yea, I know! Crazy, aint it? Instead, I tanked it on my shaman while LF tank. In most cases there is a way how to overcome 1 member leaving. Cut the bullshit and stop complaining about a non-problem.

only read the first sentence, were talking about lower to mid level groups. Tank leaves or cleric leaves people take that as an opportunity to leave themselves, tank goes then a cleric goes because they don't want to wait for another tank and you have 4 dps left that pretty much give up. I don't really make groups because im a wizard and i get more soloing so if it goes down the tubes oh well.

but not everyone can solo like that

[Vindor]

Originally Posted by Wudan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

LOL. You must be joining/leading some weak ass lame groups if they collapse because of 1 member leaving. Last time I was in Crypt we had our tank bail without warning...guess what happened?! Group did not collapse! Yea, I know! Crazy, aint it? Instead, I tanked it on my shaman while LF tank. In most cases there is a way how to overcome 1 member leaving. Cut the bullshit and stop complaining about a non-problem.

What do you care if he decide to not group with people he find unreliable ? sounds a lot like complaining about a non-problem from here [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[Swish]

The best people are the ones who'll group up at the Sebilis entrance, then when you get to disco/chef/etc (never happens for crypt)... "anyone have a replacement (class x)?" about 5 minutes later.

[Lisset]

The other day I got into a guild group that was heading to kedge for xp. Right after 3 of us zoned in I got some intense wife agro and had to leave. No "in thirty minutes" or anything. I felt terrible leaving my group at kedge without CC but I had no real choice.

I'm sorry but sometimes shit really does just happen.

[Rhambuk]

Originally Posted by Lisset [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

The other day I got into a guild group that was heading to kedge for xp. Right after 3 of us zoned in I got some intense wife agro and had to leave. No "in thirty minutes" or anything. I felt terrible leaving my group at kedge without CC but I had no real choice.

I'm sorry but sometimes shit really does just happen.

and theres nothing wrong with that, you probably told your group something happened with the wife you didn't just leave with no excuse.

there are people that just say im done after this one, sure there could be a reason they don't want to share and thats fine but there is no courtesy anymore.