Query from the weak!

[Mindsplatter]

I've been head over heels in love, ready to give myself fully (all the kinky shit included) to this awesome server since I started playing a few weeks ago. The issue I'm having as a 32 rogue is alot of the time I log in, and am LFG for hours. I have trouble soloing LBs as a untwinked rogue, and basically am looking for suggestions on how to spend my time WHILE LFG that can better my character. It's frustrating and at times I sit down thinking "I'm ready to grind exp for 4 hours" and end up logging off 45 minutes later because sitting at zone lines spouting LFG in ooc gets old quick, especially when my friends list is empty.. *sniff sniff*