i met an older woman a few weeks ago at the bar

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i was wasted, and of course didnt remember right away, as she texted me. being the upstanding human that i am, i admitted to not remembering her.. to which she replied with this text:

We met at the [name of bar removed]. You asked me if I could climb you. I did in like 3 seconds sat on your shoulders and then you ran into the bathroom with me and we made out and then both went pee and I asked you if you were a Gemini cuz I am and you said yes. We laughed out asses off and then you had to leave. But gave me your number before you left.

after that text we made plans to hang out.. but i had to cancel. fast forward to tonight, she wants to hang out again. finally we can go to her place because her son (who's my age) is no longer staying at her house, so we can have fun. only problem is, im not feeling super fun right now, some real life stresses have me down and all i want to do is play videogames with my pup.

im a little nervous that i will disappoint her with my current mood, as she made it very clear that she is only interested in having fun and staying up all night. ive managed to avoid tonight, but common sense tells me that the next time we hang out it will have to be me doing the invitation.

am i overthinking this? i dont want to fuck around and have her go psycho on me because im being a downer or something else (i know how volatile women can be) and i might be jumping to assumptions thinking that she just wants to fuck. any advice? i know alot of you betas research situations like this regularly, maybe you can provide some insight. thanks.