i met an older woman a few weeks ago at the bar

[phacemeltar]

i was wasted, and of course didnt remember right away, as she texted me. being the upstanding human that i am, i admitted to not remembering her.. to which she replied with this text:

We met at the [name of bar removed]. You asked me if I could climb you. I did in like 3 seconds sat on your shoulders and then you ran into the bathroom with me and we made out and then both went pee and I asked you if you were a Gemini cuz I am and you said yes. We laughed out asses off and then you had to leave. But gave me your number before you left.

after that text we made plans to hang out.. but i had to cancel. fast forward to tonight, she wants to hang out again. finally we can go to her place because her son (who's my age) is no longer staying at her house, so we can have fun. only problem is, im not feeling super fun right now, some real life stresses have me down and all i want to do is play videogames with my pup.

im a little nervous that i will disappoint her with my current mood, as she made it very clear that she is only interested in having fun and staying up all night. ive managed to avoid tonight, but common sense tells me that the next time we hang out it will have to be me doing the invitation.

am i overthinking this? i dont want to fuck around and have her go psycho on me because im being a downer or something else (i know how volatile women can be) and i might be jumping to assumptions thinking that she just wants to fuck. any advice? i know alot of you betas research situations like this regularly, maybe you can provide some insight. thanks.

[big_ole_jpn]

just snort some coke and be friendly you nerd, she wants your dick

[Baler]

Before I respond,. did she get off your shoulders in the restroom before you two made out and pissed together? I wont judge. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Just be confident. Even if she doesn't want to do whoopy. Make her smile, be joyful. The world can be negative far too much. Just have fun. Don't over thinking it that's for sure. Be natural about it or it won't roll well. Think god damn I got this amazing body that this lady wants to be next to. Fuck yeah. (amazing body or not,. it sounds like she wants to be near you in some way) you have half the battle out of the park. The rest is just making it around the bases.If she slips into something more comfortable you'll know,.. you'll know. [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]
I know what it's like to be a downer around a woman who seems into you. You can only milk that sympathy so far before they want you to go man mode.

[big_ole_jpn]

Originally Posted by Baler [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Even if she doesn't want to do whoopy. Make her smile, be joyful.

stopped reading this beta advice right here

[Baler]

Originally Posted by big_ole_jpn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

stopped reading this beta advice right here

Well he said she was an older woman,. don't they use the word whoopy?
Also he said he was feeling down. I don't know about him this is true. But for me it makes me happy to make other people happy or at least smile. I don't see how this hurts his chances.

[SyanideGas]

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[big_ole_jpn]

Originally Posted by Baler [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

she doesn't want to do whoopy.

Originally Posted by Baler [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

don't see how this hurts his chances.

are you talking about his odds of selling her some Cutco knives?

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[Ahldagor]

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

[AzzarTheGod]

wouldn't bother.

its not all about alpha this like the /r/9k trolls here are saying.

unless you got a vibe, I wouldn't do anything probably unless desperate. no vibe no way to know what you are dealing with.

kinda dumb post since you don't have any real info.

[Spyder73]

Originally Posted by big_ole_jpn [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

just snort some coke and be friendly you nerd, she wants your dick

Pretty much the best advise in the thread