Game Will Not Load Past Server Select

[MaSQue]

This was my original post when I fought with this the first time ......
https://www.project1999.com/forums/s...d.php?t=244814
ok so how can I force EQ to load up in windowed mode? I can alt/enter at login screen and it goes to windowed mode, when I click the EQ server (P99) it starts to load and goes straight into full screen and refuses to load in full screen. How can I make it windowed mode and KEEP it windowed mode from the start?

Isn't there a file in the folder I can edit to keep it in windowed mode?

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The first time I "tried and failed" to get this fixed, you can see in the other post a lot of stuff was tried. here I am again giving this one more try.

I tried messing with it again since the last time, and I thought I would record everything, maybe someone sees something and knows how to fix.
I really wanna play 99 again lol so any help I would be super grateful for https://www.twitch.tv/idleknight/v/74391095