Lodizal afk pull

[Meguvin]

Hi there. i have a question about this mob.
Today someone got FTE on lodi while he was afk (probably he was using autofire), i couldnt stop my spell and got aggro. I kitted him 10 min. i was waiting for the guy took the aggro but he didnt and i had to die to drop aggro (dont want a report).

Should i killed him with my parthner? we did right? I know rules says FTE got the mob, but he was afk.

Thanks!