As an outsider to the community, I can tell you that this place is quite toxic. Hearing little pieces about some of the things that go on here does make me think that there is serious cyber bullying happening. Even in this thread the amount of vitriol is pretty sad.
I'm not aware of any history around the mace incident, but I will say that we all share the collective responsibility to hold each other accountable and to be excellent to each other.
Also, Cid makes a good point about not sharing RL info on p99. Make friends in RL. Friends list is for knowing which of your enemies is online.
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