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Patrece
09-29-2022, 05:58 PM
jQOhRx3fDJ8
6'2
Long flowing hair
Hazel eyes
Well endowed
Uncircumcised
Unvaccinated
Proud father
Tested 137IQ
Just be yourself bro, it always worked for me
Chortles Snortles
09-29-2022, 06:28 PM
https://i.imgur.com/4PE14hI.jpeg
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 06:31 PM
This belongs in OT more than RnF, but nice find. Normally these vids about dating are written by bitter losers and WAYYY off base, but so far the only thing I can find wrong is that being below 5 attractiveness has no impact on whether a joke is funny or not. Have you seen how comedians like Louis CK and Bill Burr look? They look like shit. In fact most successful male comedians have looked like crap. Women will fake liking an unfunny joke to try to score points with someone they are attracted to, that is more accurate a statement. But an ugly funny guy can definitely crack a girl up
Nope, the rejection part is wrong too. What rejection you get depends on your approach and the girl’s personality. Some girls with great personalities will always be as sweet as they can when rejecting a guy regardless of how they look. And an ugly guy with a great funny and witty approach can still get a very sweet, polite rejection even from a girl with an average personality. Definitely not a guaranteed “fuck off before I call the police”. That’s only guaranteed if an ugly guy uses a really shitty aggressive approach
[So far so good after this]..
Up until the point it mentions a waitress using touch as an example of attraction. Bad example. WOMEN use touch as a sign of attraction, a waitress does it to get a better tip. Just because a waitress touches your shoulder or leg does not mean she’s attracted to you, bad idea to try to run with that
Last one is a biggie. Wtf is normies have no luck in online approaches? 100% false. Online is a numbers game. Create a profile, get great pics (no mirror selfies), have one be you doing something social, and one of a cute pet. Have a profile body that’s witty and funny ideally. And then put that same profile on match, bumble, AND Tinder. All 3. Then spend 30 minutes a day swiping right on people you like on all 3 apps at once, be realistic, people you think you can get. You are guaranteed to line up dates this way. As many as you can handle in a weekend
Patrece
09-29-2022, 06:36 PM
Hobart def in the "creep" category
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 06:38 PM
Overall though, good vid, fairly accurate, I score it 8.5/10
Reiwa
09-29-2022, 06:44 PM
Up until the point it mentions a waitress using touch as an example of attraction. Bad example. WOMEN use touch as a sign of attraction, a waitress does it to get a better tip. Just because a waitress touches your shoulder or leg does not mean she’s attracted to you, bad idea to try to run with that
Show me on the doll where the waitress touched you.
Chortles Snortles
09-29-2022, 06:53 PM
she didn't
(lol)
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 06:54 PM
Show me on the doll where the waitress touched you.
Mostly the shoulder or knee, especially if it’s at a bar
In fact it’s so incredibly common for waitresses up to 10/10 hot to touch myself or other people I’m sitting with, I’d say it happens more often than it doesn’t. Looks like we all missed out on lots of sex ;)
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 07:01 PM
Also, attractive waitresses get hit on constantly by drunk lonely men, who give them fat tips at the end
If you think it’s better advice to say hit on the waitress because she touched your leg, you better have some serious game because she’s heard it all before. But you do you, G’luck
Basanos
09-29-2022, 07:03 PM
I prefer this one, it's an honest, unflinching look at PUA scams for what they are. Meant to part the lonely with their money.
bsH8etcCeic
Jibartik
09-29-2022, 07:11 PM
That video is all fun and games until you find out he fucked your mom.
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 07:13 PM
I prefer this one, it's an honest, unflinching look at PUA scams for what they are. Meant to part the lonely with their money.
Anytime someone is charging for basic self-help advice on any topic that anyone could already look up online, it’s always a scam
There’s conversation starters and pick up line ideas all over the internet. I read and memorize interesting questions to ask dates beforehand sometimes. I 100% will look up interesting questions to ask them on dating sites once we start messaging. All that information is available for free. Anyone charging for it is trying to rip you off
Also, if you act too far outside your personality on a date, you are eventually going to have to revert back to yourself, and probably long before you hook up. I consider putting on a fake personality the same as catfishing. It’s scummy
Basanos
09-29-2022, 07:21 PM
I can't ever remember thinking of a deliberate strategy before a date, but I've been in a consistent relationship of some kind since 2004. My memories are pretty spotty from about 2000-2013 because of rampant drug abuse, though, so it checks out.
But hey, if it takes strategy, and everyone's having a good time, then rock them lines. I never got anywhere with deliberate pickup lines, but I did used to memorize jokes before parties or whatever.
My wife now, when we met, I had mentioned that I was embarrassed about having a zit on my mouth during casual conversation. I told her it was probably herpes. We've been together since.
Chortles Snortles
09-29-2022, 07:24 PM
https://i.imgur.com/CYs54y1.jpg
Jibartik
09-29-2022, 07:25 PM
When i was in highschool there was this girl I was into, she seemed to like real shitty people who treated her like shit.
She was my good friend, I was totally in the friendzone. So I started like negging her all the time, everything she said Id have some insulting comeback to make her the butt of the joke.
We were walking down the street one day and she starts looking at me different then says, idk what it is about you lately..
and we were in a relationship the next week.
I tried to get together with her for like 2 years treating her like the hero I believed she was lol
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 07:33 PM
I can't ever remember thinking of a deliberate strategy before a date, but I've been in a consistent relationship of some kind since 2004. My memories are pretty spotty from about 2000-2013 because of rampant drug abuse, though, so it checks out.
But hey, if it takes strategy, and everyone's having a good time, then rock them lines. I never got anywhere with deliberate pickup lines, but I did used to memorize jokes before parties or whatever.
My wife now, when we met, I had mentioned that I was embarrassed about having a zit on my mouth during casual conversation. I told her it was probably herpes. We've been together since.
I don’t really look up pick up lines. I prefer for conversations to happen more organically than walking up and firing off some cheesy line
I DO look up interesting questions and only use them during lulls in the conversation while on dates. Something like “ok, I have kind an unusual question for you, do you have any particular pet peeves?” Or “do you have any guilty pleasures?”
I got the idea from a girl I was messaging on bumble. I had just finished asking what part of town she was living in and what she did for work, and her answers were really short and she seemed annoyed (keep in mind this was online though). Then she responded with “I’m sorry for being rude, I’ve been on these sites a long time and I get tired of answering the same questions over and over”
It ultimately didn’t work out with her, but it gave me the idea to ask interesting, unusual questions sometimes to mix things up. But I wasn’t clever enough to come up with my own always. So I would a few up ahead of time. It shouldn’t be the entire approach though, only a few minutes filler
Lol I get mouth zits too. Always a gamble to point one out, because if they didn’t notice it before now they for sure will. Glad it worked out for you though ;).
Chortles Snortles
09-29-2022, 07:34 PM
and then, everybody clapped
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 07:37 PM
When i was in highschool there was this girl I was into, she seemed to like real shitty people who treated her like shit.
She was my good friend, I was totally in the friendzone. So I started like negging her all the time, everything she said Id have some insulting comeback to make her the butt of the joke.
We were walking down the street one day and she starts looking at me different then says, idk what it is about you lately..
and we were in a relationship the next week.
I tried to get together with her for like 2 years treating her like the hero I believed she was lol
I’ve heard this echo’d a lot, that girls like guys who treat them like shit
I don’t like it, it runs contrary to my personality. Like I said, you have to revert back to yourself sometime. Can’t be fake around someone 100% of the time, that’s just weird
I think it is a benefit to seem cool and aloof rather than clingy. Playing hard to get tends to more for a guy than easy to get. But I think as women get older especially, they are less interested in jerks unless those jerks are hot and/or rich
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 07:39 PM
and then, everybody clapped
Everyone clapped after the girl was rude to me on bumble because I asked boring questions and ultimately ghosted me?
Damn quite a cruel crowd then huh. Next time read the post ;)
unsunghero
09-29-2022, 07:59 PM
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Chortles Snortles
09-29-2022, 08:05 PM
it was for the guy before you dunce
Basanos
09-29-2022, 08:05 PM
I’ve heard this echo’d a lot, that girls like guys who treat them like shit
I don’t like it, it runs contrary to my personality.I've heard this too, but I have never directly observed it. I am with you. I can't be mean to people unless they are doing something outrageously bad. I've been accused of "running for mayor".
magnetaress
09-29-2022, 08:19 PM
What is the overweight androgynous version of Chad?
magnetaress
09-29-2022, 08:30 PM
What is the overweight androgynous version of Chad?
A chad who survived hurricane Ian.
I ate food from a fridge that was off for 12 hrs tho.
Reiwa
09-29-2022, 08:33 PM
I've heard this too, but I have never directly observed it. I am with you. I can't be mean to people unless they are doing something outrageously bad. I've been accused of "running for mayor".
Mild heckling vs meanness I think.
magnetaress
09-29-2022, 09:08 PM
Representing reality with some integrity and efficiency isn't being mean.
unsunghero
09-30-2022, 12:34 AM
it was for the guy before you dunce
Oh dur. Well fuck you anyway
(Lol)
unsunghero
09-30-2022, 01:05 AM
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Chortles Snortles
09-30-2022, 01:10 AM
https://i.imgur.com/BJIYICA.jpg
Is that a tucked penis in the above picture? I certainly hope so. Also, if thats a robot they've come a long way.
Garnaak
09-30-2022, 05:39 AM
I don’t really look up pick up lines. I prefer for conversations to happen more organically than walking up and firing off some cheesy line
I DO look up interesting questions and only use them during lulls in the conversation while on dates. Something like “ok, I have kind an unusual question for you, do you have any particular pet peeves?” Or “do you have any guilty pleasures?”
When I read this, the voice and face I saw and heard was Mr. Collins from Pride and Prejudice.
magnetaress
09-30-2022, 09:03 AM
Is that a tucked penis in the above picture? I certainly hope so. Also, if thats a robot they've come a long way.
if you where under 20 and had 250 mil that was what it's always been like for the robots
Patrece
09-30-2022, 11:47 AM
the usual creeps and degenerates have flooded this one up
just watch vid in OP
hobart
09-30-2022, 01:31 PM
Hobart def in the "creep" category
No need to date since Reagan was in office. Hobart married with five kids and hasn't gone a week without sex since his oldest child was conceived around Thanksgiving of 1984. QQ more Nirgon, you incel.
Try learning from your betters instead of embarrassing yourself.
Jibartik
09-30-2022, 01:54 PM
Nobody cares about anyone except for the people everyone hates.
M1612L2FMHo
Tunabros
09-30-2022, 02:02 PM
https://i.imgur.com/BKfln18.png
most of you guy will get blackouts on this
Chortles Snortles
09-30-2022, 02:09 PM
https://i.imgur.com/Liqro6i.jpg
Bardp1999
09-30-2022, 02:12 PM
https://i.imgur.com/iASzLOw.jpg
Chortles Snortles
09-30-2022, 02:13 PM
https://i.imgur.com/ttXzVfJ.jpg
Bardp1999
09-30-2022, 02:14 PM
https://i.imgur.com/CutKjHL.jpg
Patrece
09-30-2022, 02:27 PM
https://i.imgur.com/BKfln18.png
most of you guy will get blackouts on this
Is this one of those "I was feeding a baby" cucks from Kingdumb
No one believes that, and if it was true, go be a dad u pos
Tunabros
09-30-2022, 02:36 PM
Is this one of those "I was feeding a baby" cucks from Kingdumb
No one believes that, and if it was true, go be a dad u pos
lol what are you rambling about? time to take your schizophrenic med?
Chortles Snortles
09-30-2022, 02:39 PM
https://i.imgur.com/Liqro6i.jpg
Patrece
09-30-2022, 02:39 PM
The mancreep known as "the tunacuck" ladies and gents
hobart
09-30-2022, 06:04 PM
Is this one of those "I was feeding a baby" cucks from Kingdumb
No one believes that, and if it was true, go be a dad u pos
The mancreep known as "the tunacuck" ladies and gents
Uses the word cuck. Incel confirmed.
Chortles Snortles
09-30-2022, 06:30 PM
https://i.imgur.com/r3fs0Hp.jpg
unsunghero
09-30-2022, 07:19 PM
How I feel posting after getting on Chortles bad side…
https://i.ibb.co/fH3Kvcx/1-EA917-F5-2-DBC-4725-9-AD0-82-A791995-D72.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Overall though, good vid, fairly accurate, I score it 8.5/10
Based on all your criticisms/common sense in this thread, it sounds like thr video is maybe some 3/10 incel/MRA trash made by some terminally online loser. :cool:
lol what are you rambling about? time to take your schizophrenic med?
Patrece
09-30-2022, 08:13 PM
bobs n vagene
A chad who survived hurricane Ian.
I ate food from a fridge that was off for 12 hrs tho.
Maerilith = Dinotriz/DeathEncroaching confirmed :cool:
Patrece
09-30-2022, 08:16 PM
currycel
unsunghero
09-30-2022, 08:46 PM
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Chortles Snortles
09-30-2022, 09:17 PM
currycel
tcel
Bardp1999
09-30-2022, 09:45 PM
https://i.imgur.com/rWm1XnQ.gif
Jibartik
09-30-2022, 09:53 PM
https://i.imgur.com/bywu5gr.png
Reiwa
09-30-2022, 10:08 PM
Maerilith = Dinotriz/DeathEncroaching confirmed :cool:
Asteria = meth witch confirmed :cool:
Reiwa
09-30-2022, 11:21 PM
https://i.imgur.com/r3fs0Hp.jpg
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Patrece
09-30-2022, 11:45 PM
tcel
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Patrece
10-01-2022, 01:03 PM
35fiNZTVVtU
Turns out women are 1,000% or higher more looks focused than men.
There goes the whole men are pigs thing, right out the window. It's the other way around.
Basanos
10-01-2022, 01:32 PM
Turns out women are 1,000% or higher more looks focused than men.
There goes the whole men are pigs thing, right out the window. It's the other way around.Sorry you do not consider yourself attractive, I advise you cultivate a sense of humor to compensate
unsunghero
10-01-2022, 01:35 PM
^
Can’t watch atm because about to do a hike, but women’s experiences on dating sites might be more similar to men’s than they think, although the argument can be made that they have a greater ability to be more selective (not sure if I support that argument though, would need to see more research)
This convo just happened between myself and a co-worker who likes me that I had to friendzone. She’s not bad looking any any stretch, I had heard though that she became very clingy to another co-worker she got with and wanted to avoid the drama of becoming romantic
Anyway, goes to show that we have similar experiences, and more people recognize the downsides of online dating than people think
In fact, speaking negatively about online dating in an online dating profile body is one of the few things I personally think you can be negative about and not have it hurt your chances by making you look moody and high maintenance. This is because the issues with online dating are very relatable even to people on the sites. So pointing some of the issues out actually makes you seem more relatable. A lot of people on online dating sites see them as sort of a necessary evil
Basanos
10-01-2022, 01:49 PM
I don't envy you fellas using those online dating services. The last one I used was OkCupid in like 2004. It was alright, I met this alt-girl and we were together like six months. After that I met my first wife.
I can't imagine the nightmare of Tinder, or worse yet, Grindr. I only ever did a one night stand once, it wasn't my bag. I can't separate emotions and sex.
unsunghero
10-01-2022, 01:58 PM
Last thing before I hike…for example, if you put “doesn’t it seem like everybody ghosts everyone here all the time?” in your profile body, there is a decent chance some gal might break the ice with a message of “YES!” to you
Then of course you’d have to not ghost her because you’d look like a hypocrite though ;)
Chortles Snortles
10-01-2022, 02:06 PM
GUYS I TALK TO WOMEN REALLY I DO
(lol)
Jibartik
10-01-2022, 02:49 PM
Unsung proves that just liking fantasy is enough to die alone in this new world. Thats why there is so much on TV they are trying to de-breed us by turning us into little men babies.
unsunghero
10-01-2022, 03:32 PM
GUYS I TALK TO WOMEN REALLY I DO
(lol)
How I feel posting after getting on Chortles bad side:
https://i.ibb.co/nPyN7k5/8-E866686-B104-4514-9704-5730-C679-B232.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Basanos
10-01-2022, 03:45 PM
Unsung proves that just liking fantasy is enough to die alone in this new world. Thats why there is so much on TV they are trying to de-breed us by turning us into little men babies.I do watch a lot of tv and have no desire to make my wife pregnant. Still might adopt a kid though, in a few years.
Patrece
10-01-2022, 04:55 PM
Not allowed to get her pregnant lol wut
magnetaress
10-01-2022, 05:30 PM
lol what are you rambling about? time to take your schizophrenic med?
Takes one to know one.
magnetaress
10-01-2022, 05:31 PM
https://i.imgur.com/bywu5gr.png
2cnd from the left is high fashion these days
Jibartik
10-01-2022, 06:07 PM
I wonder if the cat trick worked.
Basanos
10-01-2022, 08:55 PM
Not allowed to get her pregnant lol wutI certainly hope I'm sterile, but she sure is :)
unsunghero
10-01-2022, 11:25 PM
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unsunghero
10-02-2022, 12:58 AM
,,,
unsunghero
10-02-2022, 01:22 AM
,.,
unsunghero
10-02-2022, 03:07 AM
,,..
Chortles Snortles
10-02-2022, 09:49 AM
https://i.imgur.com/ZfrJGjp.jpg
magnetaress
10-02-2022, 10:10 AM
35fiNZTVVtU
Turns out women are 1,000% or higher more looks focused than men.
There goes the whole men are pigs thing, right out the window. It's the other way around.
When woMEN rule the earth (thEy need to change their gender to something that doesnt include men at all like just Wo... or when Oooennn! rule the earth...
***SARCASM WARNING***Sort of..I can't wait till all the ugly pppl are in camps!
magnetaress
10-02-2022, 10:12 AM
I wonder if the cat trick worked.
Dude those stockings are the shit man.
Basanos
10-02-2022, 10:39 AM
https://i.imgur.com/ZfrJGjp.jpgI have not been able to find Steel Reseve deuces anywhere since the start of the pandemic. Or even twelve packs of regular steely bois.
I havent drank since June but I would like the option to have my cheap ogre swill again someday
unsunghero
10-03-2022, 12:43 AM
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magnetaress
10-03-2022, 08:30 AM
I saw a porn where this weeb of a guy with a 1999 tattoo across his abs and a bowl cutt had 'sex' with a Chinese hooker.
Literally 1999 in big black bold racist fonttype lol. Was the weirdest shit I ever saw.
magnetaress
10-03-2022, 08:32 AM
I have not been able to find Steel Reseve deuces anywhere since the start of the pandemic. Or even twelve packs of regular steely bois.
I havent drank since June but I would like the option to have my cheap ogre swill again someday
There's actually a co2 shortage and a tin can glut in reserve. Google it.
magnetaress
10-03-2022, 08:32 AM
There's actually a co2 shortage and a tin can glut in reserve. Google it.
I'm not ur mom.
Encroaching Death
10-03-2022, 10:46 AM
https://i.postimg.cc/c1kc35LP/M8b-ZXbl-1.jpg
Patrece
10-04-2022, 01:29 AM
3 ignored in a row
Chortles Snortles
10-04-2022, 01:38 AM
4
Patrece
10-04-2022, 02:09 AM
don't worry, the christchads will handle the baby making for ya
Basanos
10-04-2022, 05:21 AM
don't worry, the christchads will handle the baby making for yaThe crucial flaw in this plan is being able to talk to women
Dating site The Right Stuff. Is it true it is full of men and a ton of bots with chick profiles.
Also, it is trouble with another site named the same for actual people with the actual right stuff. IE, education, opinions not poisoned by retards and ethics.
Also also, Bawwy Kwipkey says to name it what you really want to.
The White Stuff.
Somebody said that, everybody actually, its the best name in the history of names.
Dating site The Right Stuff. Is it true it is full of men and a ton of bots with chick profiles.
Also, it is in trouble with another site named the same for actual people with the actual right stuff. IE, education, opinions not poisoned by retards and ethics.
Also also, Bawwy Kwipkey says to name it what you really want to.
The White Stuff.
Somebody said that, everybody actually, its the best name in the history of names.
Haha, dumbarse tried to edit post. Quoted self instead. Ignore double post.
Encroaching Death
10-04-2022, 10:55 AM
Ignore double post.
Never.
Kaveh
10-04-2022, 01:17 PM
I’ve heard this echo’d a lot, that girls like guys who treat them like shit
I don’t like it, it runs contrary to my personality. Like I said, you have to revert back to yourself sometime. Can’t be fake around someone 100% of the time, that’s just weird
I think it is a benefit to seem cool and aloof rather than clingy. Playing hard to get tends to more for a guy than easy to get. But I think as women get older especially, they are less interested in jerks unless those jerks are hot and/or rich
You also don’t want a woman who likes being treated like shit
That’s daddy issues. You can’t turn a ho into a housewife. Did any of you guys have dads?
Kaveh
10-04-2022, 01:17 PM
Haha, dumbarse tried to edit post. Quoted self instead. Ignore double post.
This is why we use your people as cannon fodder
Danth
10-04-2022, 01:35 PM
You can’t turn a ho into a housewife.
It's curious how many people seem oblivious to that. Maybe desperation causes folks to lower their standards? If someone'll cheat on someone else, that someone will cheat on you just as readily. That applies to men and women both, works both ways. You should trust a cheat like you trust a scorpion--as something that will predictably act according to its nature because it knows no different.
Encroaching Death
10-04-2022, 02:06 PM
Haha, dumbarse tried to edit post. Quoted self instead. Ignore double post.
https://ih1.redbubble.net/image.468350893.4552/flat,750x,075,f-pad,750x1000,f8f8f8.u3.jpg
unsunghero
10-04-2022, 05:00 PM
It's curious how many people seem oblivious to that. Maybe desperation causes folks to lower their standards? If someone'll cheat on someone else, that someone will cheat on you just as readily. That applies to men and women both, works both ways. You should trust a cheat like you trust a scorpion--as something that will predictably act according to its nature because it knows no different.
Completely agree. One I noticed, partly because I’ve done it too, is that everyone ultimately is going to act to some degree in their own self-interest. And this might mean keeping around a “back up” person as kind of a plan B while seeing someone else. As soon as things seem to be not working out with the original person, we start to kind of groom the “back up” person. For most people this grooming is not overt cheating, just becoming slightly more friendly towards them or maybe even communicating a tiny bit more frequently
I dunno why it is a comfort to have back ups. Maybe it’s a problem with me, but I don’t think I am nearly alone in it. I think unless you are a complete Chad you have been someone’s back up at one point. It’s not a great feeling, I know. Some people can’t handle it, and they freak out on the person who friendzoned them. I used to do this, but now with more confidence I have no problem with the idea of being a back up, as long as the person friendzoning me is considerably attractive enough
We tend to want to fuck up or across, not down, as Louis CK put it. So being friendzoned by someone you would see as a big step up to have sex with is more acceptable lol
Danth
10-04-2022, 08:06 PM
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Your experiences you describe are largely alien to me. I have no experience dating as an adult. I was never anyone's "back up." I could not tolerate such ill-treatment. I asked out my first girlfriend when I was 11 in sixth grade. That well might've lasted permanently, we were plenty fond of each other, but fate had other ideas and it ended due to a long-distance move when we were 16. After I got done feeling sorry about that I went on a bunch of single dates with the occasional second date. If I determined a gal wasn't a potentially suitable wife, it was terminated and I looked elsewhere. Then and now I never saw the point in wasting time on obvious dead-ends. I had given the matter enough thought I had an idea of what criteria were necessary. Due to the mass-effort almost assembly-line-like philosophy I ended up meeting the wife when I was 18. Decades later we're still together obviously. If something were to happen to her I wouldn't even know where to start.
I wonder if what you talk about people acting in their own interest is a function of middle-aged adult dating. It's a vastly different situation. The best women are mostly long since married. You have a lot of sluts who realize their biological clock is ticking, some divorcees who were too intolerable for anyone to stay married to, and a smattering of divorcees who got out of bad relationships. Maybe the rare widow due to things like traffic crashes, etc. Many of them will have kids of their own, and all of them have established lives and priorities beyond, well, you. Same for you for that matter, you have your own life and household and anyone you get together with has to fit into it; you aren't building a life together in the manner of young adults just starting out. Some of what I see you post, now and then, seems very odd to me but I try to remind myself you're living in a situaton I've never experienced myself and frankly don't have a ton of idea how to deal with if I had to.
Danth
unsunghero
10-04-2022, 08:21 PM
^
Oh no if anything it was far more common when I was younger
I try to differentiate between “back up” and friendzone. Friendzone can be someone who likes you but that you have zero romantic attraction towards. With a “back up”, there is at least the possibility of some attraction. That’s the difference in those terms when I use them. A back up is someone you friendzoned until maybe you are tired of being single or on a rebound
In order to have romantic partners and backups you have to generally socialize with a decent amount of people near to your age on a regular basis. Usually within the first few minutes-hours of socializing with someone you can have an idea if you could sleep with that person, based on your personal standards and their looks/personality. I’m assuming women are the same way in how they think. So let’s say you know 10 different single women. Some are friends, some are co-workers let’s say. Of those 10, you could hook up with maybe 3 of those, the rest you are just not attracted to for whatever reason (maybe they’re too out of shape, personality too annoying, whatever). Whether you are conscious of it or not, those 3 you could sleep with you arrange into a hierarchy in your mind. The one you are most attracted to/compatible with, and then the next 2 in line. This ranking is not something done consciously though. It’s not like someone sits down and makes lists of who is most fuckable of their friends, it just happens
It’s far more likely that the next 2 in line don’t end up being a back up due to circumstance. Maybe they get in a relationship, maybe they move, whatever. But if not, some people will deliberately keep them around because there is some level of romantic possibility there, they’re just not their first choice
Sorry, hope I don’t come across as too sociopathic with this line of thinking, but like I said, I think more people do this than you think, especially younger people
Danth
10-04-2022, 09:01 PM
Sorry, hope I don’t come across as too sociopathic with this line of thinking, but like I said, I think more people do this than you think, especially younger people
Not the word I'd use, no. We're very different people obviously. I never dated with sex as a main priority, never had any interest in "hook ups" or "flings," just isn't how my mind is wired. I understood, if nebulously, even as a kid that physical intimacy comes with long-term relationships as part of the package. I only ever dated for the purpose of finding a potential wife.
I've known some people who were relegated to an obvious "back up" status at various times. Millennials for whatever reason seem way more prone to such things. My advice has always been, grow some self respect, don't let yourself be mistreated so badly, find someone else. Seems to me that a relationship with a "back up," who isn't preferred by definition, must be more likely to fail.
Jibartik
10-04-2022, 09:46 PM
Women should wear american flag burkas because they abuse their sexuality to rot the minds of our children.
magnetaress
10-04-2022, 10:04 PM
So TLDR the hip thing to do now-a-days is lock it down to body type 1 at character creation and never show skin on character models?
eisley
10-04-2022, 11:36 PM
this thread is pretty accurate tbh
Encroaching Death
10-05-2022, 06:11 AM
I just see a hole and I dive right in
Patrece
10-05-2022, 11:42 AM
If I determined a gal wasn't a potentially suitable wife, it was terminated and I looked elsewhere.
Based Danth
Kaveh
10-05-2022, 12:27 PM
https://ih1.redbubble.net/image.468350893.4552/flat,750x,075,f-pad,750x1000,f8f8f8.u3.jpg
Dam I lol’d at this harder than I should’ve
Kaveh
10-05-2022, 12:28 PM
It's curious how many people seem oblivious to that. Maybe desperation causes folks to lower their standards? If someone'll cheat on someone else, that someone will cheat on you just as readily. That applies to men and women both, works both ways. You should trust a cheat like you trust a scorpion--as something that will predictably act according to its nature because it knows no different.
Yeah I hear “marriage ends in divorce 50% of the time, why would I do it!” A lot
The short answer is no reason to unless you want kids. The long answer is marriage is only as good as the people involved
Kaveh
10-05-2022, 12:34 PM
Your experiences you describe are largely alien to me. I have no experience dating as an adult. I was never anyone's "back up." I could not tolerate such ill-treatment. I asked out my first girlfriend when I was 11 in sixth grade. That well might've lasted permanently, we were plenty fond of each other, but fate had other ideas and it ended due to a long-distance move when we were 16. After I got done feeling sorry about that I went on a bunch of single dates with the occasional second date. If I determined a gal wasn't a potentially suitable wife, it was terminated and I looked elsewhere. Then and now I never saw the point in wasting time on obvious dead-ends. I had given the matter enough thought I had an idea of what criteria were necessary. Due to the mass-effort almost assembly-line-like philosophy I ended up meeting the wife when I was 18. Decades later we're still together obviously. If something were to happen to her I wouldn't even know where to start.
I wonder if what you talk about people acting in their own interest is a function of middle-aged adult dating. It's a vastly different situation. The best women are mostly long since married. You have a lot of sluts who realize their biological clock is ticking, some divorcees who were too intolerable for anyone to stay married to, and a smattering of divorcees who got out of bad relationships. Maybe the rare widow due to things like traffic crashes, etc. Many of them will have kids of their own, and all of them have established lives and priorities beyond, well, you. Same for you for that matter, you have your own life and household and anyone you get together with has to fit into it; you aren't building a life together in the manner of young adults just starting out. Some of what I see you post, now and then, seems very odd to me but I try to remind myself you're living in a situaton I've never experienced myself and frankly don't have a ton of idea how to deal with if I had to.
Danth
This was a great post I was gonna type something similar but then read yours and agreed completely
Kaveh
10-05-2022, 12:37 PM
^
Oh no if anything it was far more common when I was younger
I try to differentiate between “back up” and friendzone. Friendzone can be someone who likes you but that you have zero romantic attraction towards. With a “back up”, there is at least the possibility of some attraction. That’s the difference in those terms when I use them. A back up is someone you friendzoned until maybe you are tired of being single or on a rebound
In order to have romantic partners and backups you have to generally socialize with a decent amount of people near to your age on a regular basis. Usually within the first few minutes-hours of socializing with someone you can have an idea if you could sleep with that person, based on your personal standards and their looks/personality. I’m assuming women are the same way in how they think. So let’s say you know 10 different single women. Some are friends, some are co-workers let’s say. Of those 10, you could hook up with maybe 3 of those, the rest you are just not attracted to for whatever reason (maybe they’re too out of shape, personality too annoying, whatever). Whether you are conscious of it or not, those 3 you could sleep with you arrange into a hierarchy in your mind. The one you are most attracted to/compatible with, and then the next 2 in line. This ranking is not something done consciously though. It’s not like someone sits down and makes lists of who is most fuckable of their friends, it just happens
It’s far more likely that the next 2 in line don’t end up being a back up due to circumstance. Maybe they get in a relationship, maybe they move, whatever. But if not, some people will deliberately keep them around because there is some level of romantic possibility there, they’re just not their first choice
Sorry, hope I don’t come across as too sociopathic with this line of thinking, but like I said, I think more people do this than you think, especially younger people
Don’t take this the wrong way dude, but I think you are thinking about dating all wrong. It sounds like you want to get pussy with multiple different women. That’s fine if it’s your goal, but if you’d like to get married at some point you’re thinking about it like it’s strategy when it’s actually just living your life normally. You can’t have a “main bitch” and a “backup”. Neither will work out and in fact, they’re more likely to meet one another and kill you. Women are cannier than men. You can’t fool them. Hope this helps
Encroaching Death
10-05-2022, 12:38 PM
Yeah I hear “marriage ends in divorce 50% of the time, why would I do it!” A lot
The short answer is no reason to unless you want kids. The long answer is marriage is only as good as the people involved
Security when you get old too.
But I don't want to have kids JUST because I have someone to take care of me when I'm old.
I suppose there's always snorting a few lines and flipping the Corvette when I'm ready to die.
I don't want to live in an Amazon Jeff Bezos Nursing Home Pod or whatever hellscape they'll invent.
Kaveh
10-05-2022, 12:48 PM
Security when you get old too.
But I don't want to have kids JUST because I have someone to take care of me when I'm old.
I suppose there's always snorting a few lines and flipping the Corvette when I'm ready to die.
I don't want to live in an Amazon Jeff Bezos Nursing Home Pod or whatever hellscape they'll invent.
Kids are expensive and difficult. They’re cool too
Bottom line is you just have to know yourself and not be playing games with either yourself or a woman. They’ll see through your bull shit like a horse can smell fear
Godbelss
Encroaching Death
10-05-2022, 12:56 PM
Kids are expensive and difficult. They’re cool too
Bottom line is you just have to know yourself and not be playing games with either yourself or a woman. They’ll see through your bull shit like a horse can smell fear
Godbelss
Oh, I'm a piece of shit (surprise)
I typically date women just long enough to sleep with them a handful of times (until I get bored) or until they find out I'm not interested in a relationship.
I always thought I would grow out of douchebag mode but apparently not.
Jibartik
10-05-2022, 02:39 PM
If someone is in your friendzone, marry them quick.
hobart
10-05-2022, 04:21 PM
The crucial flaw in this plan is being able to talk to women
The second crucial flaw is OP being a repugnant piece of shit that no decent woman could stand to be around.
Women, for starters, are typically less racist and hateful than angry white 40-year-old virgins.
Encroaching Death
10-05-2022, 04:49 PM
Women, for starters, are typically less racist and hateful than angry white 40-year-old virgins.
https://media.gq-magazine.co.uk/photos/5d13999086dd7e376c5538bd/16:9/w_2560%2Cc_limit/foreword-gq-4apr18_b.jpg
Patrece
10-05-2022, 07:50 PM
Women, for starters, are typically less racist and hateful than angry white 40-year-old virgins.
Yeah they just shun 92% of males as genetic waste
Jibartik
10-05-2022, 08:04 PM
Women, for starters, are typically less racist and hateful than angry white 40-year-old virgins.
lol ok Karen.
Chortles Snortles
10-05-2022, 08:18 PM
https://i.imgur.com/3etpDna.jpg
Jibartik
10-05-2022, 08:29 PM
yl90NN3PEIQ
unsunghero
10-05-2022, 09:31 PM
…
I just see a hole and I dive right in
https://ih1.redbubble.net/image.468350893.4552/flat,750x,075,f-pad,750x1000,f8f8f8.u3.jpg
That is clearly not a knife.
Also, i dont get it. Am i being ridiculed? If so imma spoon you so fucking hard. Thats the sharp one, right?
Lolocaust.
reznor_
10-05-2022, 10:17 PM
https://i.imgur.com/3etpDna.jpg
based? based on what?
Chortles Snortles
10-05-2022, 10:20 PM
lol
reznor_
10-05-2022, 10:22 PM
Yeah they just shun 92% of males as genetic waste
tbh 92% of males are genetic waste
Patrece
10-06-2022, 01:48 AM
tbh 92% of males are genetic waste
at least you arent shitting up the unvaxxinated only thread
at least you arent shitting up the unvaxxinated only thread
That sounds just like a challenge!
unsunghero
10-06-2022, 10:58 PM
…
unsunghero
10-06-2022, 11:00 PM
,,,
Chortles Snortles
10-06-2022, 11:01 PM
im da alpha!
unsunghero
10-06-2022, 11:06 PM
based? based on what?
Doesn’t mean based on anything
Based is one of those words where you can know what it means but not define it easily
Reiwa
10-07-2022, 12:39 AM
https://i.imgur.com/3etpDna.jpg
1/3 and based
unsunghero
10-07-2022, 02:01 AM
…,
Patrece
10-07-2022, 04:32 AM
L777Qqm3Hbo
Aeaolena
10-07-2022, 09:32 AM
I don't know who needs to see this but apparently there's a way to improve your face shape / jaw over time (like the course of a year, if done consistently). It's a technique called Mewing after Dr. Mike Mew. There's a lot of videos on it if you search "Mewing Jawline Orthotropics".
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqlxAdmky10
It's non-surgical, so it takes time/consistency.
Go forth and get laid, fellow nerds!~ /salute.
Aeaolena
10-07-2022, 09:33 AM
Also I think bulging eyes can be a symptom of thyroid issues which a doctor can check with a blood test and fix (I think?) with thyroid medication?
(I'll stop putting wholesome stuff in RnF now. Sorry dudes.)
Chortles Snortles
10-07-2022, 10:34 AM
Areola
Encroaching Death
10-07-2022, 10:58 AM
I don't know who needs to see this but apparently there's a way to improve your face shape / jaw over time (like the course of a year, if done consistently). It's a technique called Mewing after Dr. Mike Mew. There's a lot of videos on it if you search "Mewing Jawline Orthotropics".
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqlxAdmky10
It's non-surgical, so it takes time/consistency.
Go forth and get laid, fellow nerds!~ /salute.
My jawline cuts glass already
Chortles Snortles
10-07-2022, 11:20 AM
https://i.imgur.com/GC3mmFS.jpg
Castle2.0
10-07-2022, 11:52 AM
22x7hsoZ1cA I love the ingenuity even if the guy looks cartoonish in the end.
Glad to already be a gigachad =P
Encroaching Death
10-07-2022, 12:09 PM
Looks like he Photoshopped himself IRL
https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2021/03/06/01/40103612-9332065-image-m-15_1614992420547.jpg
unsunghero
10-07-2022, 12:11 PM
I don't know who needs to see this but apparently there's a way to improve your face shape / jaw over time (like the course of a year, if done consistently). It's a technique called Mewing after Dr. Mike Mew. There's a lot of videos on it if you search "Mewing Jawline Orthotropics".
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqlxAdmky10
It's non-surgical, so it takes time/consistency.
Go forth and get laid, fellow nerds!~ /salute.
Resting your tongue at the top of your mouth, ya
Derek from More Plates More Dates channel did it and said it erased laugh lines on his face. He made a vid about it. I do believe it works but Derek is also one of the most knowledgeable people on pharmacology, both legal and illegal, stuff in existence. I personally don’t know what other anti-aging supplements or chemicals he may have been using to contribute. Maybe none…maybe a lot. The guy is known to experiment on himself though with lots of stuff
Pic and if interested, search for the vid title on YouTube if you want to see the vid on it
Chortles Snortles
10-07-2022, 12:28 PM
https://i.imgur.com/Gh2kT21.png?fb
Jibartik
10-07-2022, 12:37 PM
Resting your tongue at the top of your mouth, ya
Derek from More Plates More Dates channel did it and said it erased laugh lines on his face. He made a vid about it. I do believe it works but Derek is also one of the most knowledgeable people on pharmacology, both legal and illegal, stuff in existence. I personally don’t know what other anti-aging supplements or chemicals he may have been using to contribute. Maybe none…maybe a lot. The guy is known to experiment on himself though with lots of stuff
Pic and if interested, search for the vid title on YouTube if you want to see the vid on it
I was intreigued until I saw 3 seconds into the video that's bullshit.
https://i.imgur.com/vhQBENR.png
unsunghero
10-07-2022, 01:13 PM
I was intreigued until I saw 3 seconds into the video that's bullshit.
https://i.imgur.com/vhQBENR.png
Dunno what ya mean or who that is or what vid you are referring to
I used to do it sporadically, but the opportunity cost for attempting mewing is essentially nothing. It’s not a product you pay for or even takes a lot of time. It’s only a matter of can you do it consistently which for me the answer was no, lol
Encroaching Death
10-07-2022, 02:18 PM
https://i.imgur.com/Gh2kT21.png?fb
KV5QlSgq7lg
Jibartik
10-07-2022, 02:22 PM
I was intreigued until I saw 3 seconds into the video that's bullshit.
https://i.imgur.com/vhQBENR.png
its 3 seconds into the video in the link you sent about getting rid of those mouth wrinkle lines, that I was replying to.
His mouth wrinkles are extremely profound.
unsunghero
10-07-2022, 03:00 PM
its 3 seconds into the video in the link you sent about getting rid of those mouth wrinkle lines, that I was replying to.
His mouth wrinkles are extremely profound.
Yea once again not sure what vid you are watching, this is 3 seconds into the one I linked. Clean shaven, ur vid seems like someone else
Sadre Spinegnawer
10-07-2022, 03:05 PM
Fact: you kids missed when the real porn stars where here. Because baybe let me tell you, p99 used to be you could not zone without having step across a bunch of eq honeys lfg. Quality poontang.
https://www.project1999.com/forums/archive/index.php/t-124372.html
Chortles Snortles
10-07-2022, 03:33 PM
someone should tell him
Patrece
10-07-2022, 04:33 PM
Ya is that thing still crawlin around lol
unsunghero
10-07-2022, 10:57 PM
It’s that ez boys. I was barely fuckin around on this one, looks like I got somethin to do 2moro afternoon now tho
Patrece
10-09-2022, 10:42 PM
https://i.imgur.com/yxTbAaO.jpg
Chortles Snortles
10-09-2022, 10:50 PM
https://i.imgur.com/DUbr3hN.gif
Encroaching Death
10-10-2022, 12:25 AM
Reminds me of Hellraiser
Patrece
10-10-2022, 12:59 AM
https://i.imgur.com/zfcLMyB.png
Patrece
10-10-2022, 04:15 AM
https://i.imgur.com/5k4LcJP.png
unsunghero
10-10-2022, 08:50 PM
…
unsunghero
10-10-2022, 08:51 PM
,,,
Reiwa
10-10-2022, 08:57 PM
https://i.imgur.com/5k4LcJP.png
So your parents, grandparents, and great grandparents each had 1 child per trothal?
Chortles Snortles
10-10-2022, 08:57 PM
so you're the one taking the photo, got it
(lol)
Gay_Young_Thing
10-10-2022, 09:06 PM
so you're the one taking the photo, got it
(lol)
I'm sorry Sonny?
Chortles Snortles
10-10-2022, 09:18 PM
incelhero's post bj
Chortles Snortles
10-10-2022, 09:24 PM
gotem
Chortles Snortles
10-10-2022, 09:32 PM
good one DUDE
(lol)
Chortles Snortles
10-10-2022, 09:48 PM
https://i.imgur.com/ypL3tDC.png
Encroaching Death
10-10-2022, 09:50 PM
He always has the perfect response picture
unsunghero
10-10-2022, 10:07 PM
incelhero's post bj
Mad that my memes are better
(Lol)
Encroaching Death
10-10-2022, 10:40 PM
Chick in white shorts has some bangin legs
Tunabros
10-11-2022, 01:06 PM
too scared to click view post on here now a days
unsunghero
10-11-2022, 01:25 PM
Oof
Tunabros
10-11-2022, 01:35 PM
see you at the gym bro
Kaveh
10-11-2022, 01:37 PM
He always has the perfect response picture
Damn what did Big J post
Encroaching Death
10-11-2022, 02:12 PM
Damn what did Big J post
I was talking about Lulzsect
unsunghero
10-11-2022, 02:15 PM
Damn what did Big J post
Gay pr0n
Might have been a dig at me posting fit chicks. But you can’t please everybody. There’s some people who like seeing fit chicks (just me mostly), some people who have strong faith and traditional values who would prefer Bible verses and ladies in ankle-length dresses going to Church, and some people who might prefer seeing sexy dudes
I mostly post to please me
Patrece
10-11-2022, 03:07 PM
So your parents, grandparents, and great grandparents each had 1 child per trothal?
Consider it for some time
Kaveh
10-11-2022, 03:10 PM
I was talking about Lulzsect
I know, I wanted to know what he posted prior to lulz posting that meme which was hilarious
But yeh I should’ve just assumed it was gay porn. That’s what Big J always does
Encroaching Death
10-11-2022, 03:36 PM
There’s some people who like seeing fit chicks (just me mostly)
I like them.
I just hate getting boners at work.
Encroaching Death
10-11-2022, 03:37 PM
I know, I wanted to know what he posted prior to lulz posting that meme which was hilarious
But yeh I should’ve just assumed it was gay porn. That’s what Big J always does
I forgot. I didn't see any gay porn.
unsunghero
10-11-2022, 10:48 PM
…
unsunghero
10-18-2022, 01:53 AM
,,,
unsunghero
10-18-2022, 02:29 AM
,,.
magnetaress
10-20-2022, 08:21 AM
Tunasharksex (https://www.sciencealert.com/tuna-have-been-seen-rubbing-themselves-against-sharks-and-we-dont-blame-them)
Patrece
10-22-2022, 01:41 PM
https://i.imgur.com/6guh7cE.gif
Chortles Snortles
10-22-2022, 07:13 PM
https://i.imgur.com/i3Mlpy7.gif
Patrece
10-23-2022, 08:58 PM
https://i.imgur.com/TySMW4m.png
LOVE
unsunghero
10-27-2022, 03:44 PM
…
Patrece
10-31-2022, 03:08 PM
We gonna make hot chicks bang short little weird guys now or does this body image stuff only work for fat bitches
unsunghero
10-31-2022, 03:24 PM
We gonna make hot chicks bang short little weird guys now or does this body image stuff only work for fat bitches
It’s funny because I’ve talked multiple times with female friends and female co-workers and casually mentioned that it is a little unfair how many girls will take a hard line against dating guys shorter than them, but get upset when guys have a weight requirement
I’d ask them you can see why this seems unfair right? You can change your weight but we can’t change our height? And 100% of the girls I mention it to are like “yea it’s completely unfair I agree”. And I’m like “oh nice, so you’d date a guy much shorter than you then?”
And they’re still like “nah” :)
Allishia
10-31-2022, 03:25 PM
We gonna make hot chicks bang short little weird guys now or does this body image stuff only work for fat bitches
Little weird guy lol (https://www.google.com/amp/s/hollywoodunlocked.com/man-claims-he-was-rejected-from-a-job-because-his-penis-is-too-big/amp/) rofl
Patrece
10-31-2022, 03:27 PM
Ya he's healthy at any size if women don't have sex with him they are commiting an act of violence
That's what I've heard the purple haired walruses yelling at least
Maybe they shouldn't be so hateful/cuckphobic and get with these "lovely" gentlemen
Tunabros
10-31-2022, 04:00 PM
Patrece never felt the touch of a woman in his life confirmed
Basanos
10-31-2022, 04:02 PM
https://i.imgur.com/bDqf8WP.jpeg
Patrece
11-01-2022, 09:12 AM
Patrece never felt the touch of a woman in his life confirmed
You wrong Tunacuck
You always wrong
Chortles Snortles
11-01-2022, 11:21 AM
how do you do, fellow dads?
(lol)
Tunabros
11-01-2022, 02:25 PM
You wrong Tunacuck
You always wrong
prostitutes dont count
hate to break it to you
Patrece
11-01-2022, 02:32 PM
How is goblino today
Reiwa
11-01-2022, 02:36 PM
prostitutes dont count
hate to break it to you
Seems kinda exclusionary.
unsunghero
11-03-2022, 04:16 PM
,,,
Chortles Snortles
11-03-2022, 04:19 PM
THE FORUMS GONNA LOVE THIS ONE
clicks post reply
unsunghero
11-03-2022, 04:37 PM
^
wagorf
11-03-2022, 10:13 PM
study shows that sub5s are typically deeply engaged in this type of discussion
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