Trap Thread

[Hasbinbad]

What if we are indifferent? :eek:
Don't fight it Cheri, give in to the warmth we both know is spreading from your loins. Give me you passion mi amour and let us ride to the sunrise on our horse of passion.

[Rhambuk]

how is this shit still going?

go to yahoo if you want to see crossdressers

[Ahldagor]

Don't fight it cheri/cher, give in to the warmth we both know is spreading from your loins. Give me you passion mi amour and let us ride to the sunrise on our horse of passion.

ftfy

[Alawen]

I just read this article twice and I have no idea how to process it. I think it means that labels fail when you get close to the edge.

Being Married to a Lesbian Doesn't Make Me Less of a Man (http://www.advocate.com/commentary/2013/07/01/op-ed-being-married-lesbian-doesn%E2%80%99t-make-me-less-man)

[Cecily]

I just read this article twice and I have no idea how to process it. I think it means that labels fail when you get close to the edge.

Being Married to a Lesbian Doesn't Make Me Less of a Man (http://www.advocate.com/commentary/2013/07/01/op-ed-being-married-lesbian-doesn%E2%80%99t-make-me-less-man)

Love is love. All the labels do is make it "ok". I know two couples where the husband has had a breakdown and is like, "Lol. Suprise honey," and get a sex change. In both cases, the person's wife has stayed with their partner because they fell in love with the person, not that person's sex. Makes me wonder if you wouldn't see a lot more same sex relationships if that stigma was removed.

Of course that could just be a way to rationalize the cognitive dissonance caused by, "I'm a lesbian now?" I personally think that situation is one of the most fucked things you can do to someone else. Men with GID often try to play it normal for a long long time. Career, wife, kids. They get locked in, then dysphoria kicks in and the world falls apart for everyone in their life. Pretty sad to see. Saw it with my uncle. Status quo, sex change, or suicide? Those are basically the only options for trans people. All have serious negatives and will hurt anyone around them, regardless of the choice. Ain't fun.

[r00t]

Love is love. All the labels do is make it "ok". I know two couples where the husband has had a breakdown and is like, "Lol. Suprise honey," and get a sex change. In both cases, the person's wife has stayed with their partner because they fell in love with the person, not that person's sex. Makes me wonder if you wouldn't see a lot more same sex relationships if that stigma was removed.

Of course that could just be a way to rationalize the cognitive dissonance caused by, "I'm a lesbian now?" I personally think that situation is one of the most fucked things you can do to someone else. Men with GID often try to play it normal for a long long time. Career, wife, kids. They get locked in, then dysphoria kicks in and the world falls apart for everyone in their life. Pretty sad to see. Saw it with my uncle. Status quo, sex change, or suicide? Those are basically the only options for trans people. All have serious negatives and will hurt anyone around them, regardless of the choice. Ain't fun.

thats pretty crazy. my aunt found out her husband was a closet transvetite and that rly kinda ended the marriage

[r00t]

well there were other reasons too, dude was a drug runner for biker gang and had escaped a low security prison and she knew all this married him under an assumed identity for like 10 years and then he got caught up

[Hailto]

This isn't the kind of trap thread i like.

[Cecily]

I could see why that ended the marriage. Unless you're dead honest with your fiancee, you absolutely shouldn't be getting married. Gender identity issues don't pop up over night, it's usually an ongoing struggle from ages 4-5 on. Honesty about that type of stuff could definitely kill a relationship, but it's something the other person deserves to know. If someone is open minded enough to accept it, that would only end up making the relationship stronger. But pretending to be normal is usually easier... until it isn't.

[Alawen]

Love is love. All the labels do is make it "ok". I know two couples where the husband has had a breakdown and is like, "Lol. Suprise honey," and get a sex change. In both cases, the person's wife has stayed with their partner because they fell in love with the person, not that person's sex. Makes me wonder if you wouldn't see a lot more same sex relationships if that stigma was removed.

Of course that could just be a way to rationalize the cognitive dissonance caused by, "I'm a lesbian now?" I personally think that situation is one of the most fucked things you can do to someone else. Men with GID often try to play it normal for a long long time. Career, wife, kids. They get locked in, then dysphoria kicks in and the world falls apart for everyone in their life. Pretty sad to see. Saw it with my uncle. Status quo, sex change, or suicide? Those are basically the only options for trans people. All have serious negatives and will hurt anyone around them, regardless of the choice. Ain't fun.

I have a lot of hope for the future of society. I've spent a lot of time around traditional university students for the last two and a half years, and I am seeing very little tension around things like race, gender, and sexual orientation. This is, admittedly, a very progressive city, but I hope all these young people can spread the attitudes of acceptance I see displayed every day.

[r00t]

I can just say that in my vast hyperbolic experience dealing with the fairer sex, I don't see how many women would be accepting of their male partner changing identities overnight.

However, I do have an ongoing theory that all women are bisexual which may explain this phenomenon.

I can say that if I was with a woman who suddenly wanted to switch into a man, it'd be game over. We might be able to stay really good friends but an ongoing intimate relationship is completely out of the question.

[Hasbinbad]

I can just say that in my vast hyperbolic experience dealing with the fairer sex, I don't see how many women would be accepting of their male partner changing identities overnight.

However, I do have an ongoing theory that all women are bisexual which may explain this phenomenon.

I can say that if I was with a woman who suddenly wanted to switch into a man, it'd be game over. We might be able to stay really good friends but an ongoing intimate relationship is completely out of the question.
what if she didn't want the op?

[OMGWTF420]

http://global3.memecdn.com/its-a-trap_o_361728.jpg

[r00t]

what if she didn't want the op?

I don't really know what a female to male op entails. But if she's gonna take hormones have boobs shrink, grow a bunch of facial hair and try to be butch/manly. Would s/he want to pitch?

I hate to sound shallow but I am only a man but it's really more than just the physical aspect as well.

[r00t]

Also if s/he became a male and was still attracted to me, wouldn't that make her gay/bi? I don't really care about what others like to do but as for my own desire and orientation it wouldn't be comfortable to me.

[Hasbinbad]

Also if s/he became a male and was still attracted to me, wouldn't that make her gay/bi?
I think aladerp said it best .. something like "labels fail on the fringe."