Tell Windows and Party Invites

[TallyDawg]

I am having some technical issues with the chat window. I am used to classic EQ where the tells came through the general chat window. But upon starting the game once again a day ago, when I recieve a tell, a brand new window pops up. A second tell opens a completely new window. I wanted to see if there is a way to get all the tells to come through the main chat window. I am probably missing something very noobish, but any help would be greatly appreciated.

Second issue is with party invites: when I use "/loadskin velious" followed by receiving a party/group invite, no button pops up to accept. But, when I use the default or default_old skins the accept/follow option appears on the window. I love the classic screen the velious skin provides, but cannot use it because I am unable to accept invites while running it. Again, any help would be appreciated.

TallyDawg