Cannot Connect to Login Server

[dirtysouth]

Ok as I posted before, when I use the Eqemu launcher, it updates and everything but does not actually launch to the login server, it seems like it is going to but then just doesnt do anything. I have just added patchme to the end of the regular eqgame in the target box. It now says that it cannot establish a connection, contact eqtech@soe.... It also looks like it still wants to connect to the sony servers and not the emu ones.