about reaching out and being social
Vadriel, I can appreciate that you and your friend were chatting, but were you really SO busy that you couldn't respond to someone else? And you're telling him that he should be more social to find groups.....well that is only helpful if the people you reach out to answer you back. I can see why he was frustrated. Even if you told him you were busy chatting and would be a minute before you could talk to him, that would be something. He would probably have totally accepted that. It takes two participants to be social.
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