Make sure that the EQHost file is correct, sounds like the case.
http://www.eqemulator.org/wiki/wikka...akka=PlayGuide
Titanium or Secrets of Faydwer:
[LoginServer]
Host=eqemulator.net:5998
Seeds of Destruction/Underfoot/Rain Of Fear:
[LoginServer]
Host=eqemulator.net:5999