This is why people told you to be sure you were playing the class you enjoyed, Bean! Leveling to 46 (let alone 60) is a long row to ho, especially if you are playing something that you don't enjoy playing regardless of your xp rate.
That said, untwinked pally has it especially rough imo. Xp penalty, basically no solo potential, a lack of excellent duo options (I mean, a caster can duo with twinked melee or other casters and get crazy xp, or a twinked melee can find a supporting caster and go to town, etc. But an untwinked tank pretty much needs an ideal trio to blaze up the xp; smaller groups will lack damage to smoke through xp mobs and larger groups tend to have dead weight and/or not enough mobs to pull). You'll get there, you just better focus on having fun with the ride because the destination is a long ways away.
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