Basically, you need to install EQ Titanium - you can either go buy it (which is what I did), or you can find a means of downloading it.
Next, go to
http://www.eqemulator.net/forums and make a forum account. After you make your forum account, click on User CP (Top Left), then click "Login Server" (at the bottom left, under Miscellaneous), then click "Create New LS Account" - this is the username and password that you will use to log into the game.
Once you have it installed, you need to edit the "eqhost.txt" file inside the C:\Program Files\Sony\Everquest folder (just open it with Notepad).
change it to say:
Save that file.
Now create a shortcut to your desktop (this part is important).
Just right-click your desktop, select New, Select Shortcut.
The first page will ask for the path of the file, put:
Then, next, next, finish.
Now, double-chick this new shortcut, and log in with the username and password that you created on the EQEmulator.net's Login Server, and choose the server near the top of the list called "Project 1999". '
and you're in.
Welcome to Project 1999