Let's try to get a good idea of what is actually happening first. These errors don't tell us much on their own.
First do a quick restart of your computer. Then after you're fully booted-up try to log into EQ just once. After it fails to connect close out completely. Then go into your EQ directory. You should see a folder called Logs. In that folder is a file called dbg.txt. Open this file with notepad, and copy everything you see, and post it here.
I'm hoping that your log will shed some light on which part of the connection process is going wrong.
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