this thread delivers... on so many levels
To the OP: Although there are no hard-written rules about women and sex drive there are some very prominent patterns:
1) All women have some sort of daddy issue, usually a) her dad is Mr. Perfect or b) Mr. Absent (i find that it is either a or b... well sometimes in between)
-both of these have profound effects on how they view sex (validation, attention, love, etc.) not too hard to figure out/analyze your particular woman, know your enemy
Note: no double standard here: most men have mommy issues... know thyself!
2) Most freaky women who wanna drop to their knees when you walk through the door are either a) bad choices for marriage cause they are nuts or b) good girls who discovered sexuality late... see 1) above
3) porn is retarded and complete fantasy... I have never met any self-respecting man would want a woman that does what pornstars do... also remember it is acting... most of them are completely unattracted to their costars and lots are drugged up to get through it.
Men are highly visual which is why porn influences our perceptions if we watch too much. It is a good place to learn some slick moves though!
4) Men and women are very primal. Most women want to be protected, housed, told what to do, and tossed around in bed. They get a rush from the "masculine" role the man plays. Men like dominating/winning/being physical, hence... sports?
To me your problem sounds like getting it into bed... for that you just have to be like a sniper, pick your shots (pun sorta intended). You can influence it a little, but once the sex drive starts to taper off, it is tough to recover. I find that most women don't have their minds on sex as much as men because they worry more about real life stuff. (Same reason they are not into video games as much). Just watch mothers/fathers at kids' birthday parties... women are all freaked out by the bouncy house and all worried, men are like hey totally awesome/no worries. The carefree attitude of most grownup men and perpetually worried (sometimes self-conscious) mindset of women is the biggest detriment to getting busy and having fun. Wait till marriage/kids. You'll see.
Get the house cleaned, dishes done, bills paid, and the wife laid. Works like a charm. If nothing else is on a woman's mind, usually you are. I know if I wanna get some, make sure everything is taken care of. When there is nothing left to do, there is only one thing to do.
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