No, no babies. Serious about that three year mark thing. Most relationships will never last longer than that due to some weird neurological thing our brains do when choosing partners, baby in the scene or not. That's when the real work starts, and it gets way harder. All in all it sounds like you want some reciprocity in the relationship. Don't freak out over sex cause it's sex, and don't forget that porn is fictional. Also, any ritual for you or her in the foreplay? If so, then change. Add some beads or weed, weed and beads always helps. As for the emotional ex after the three way, she wasn't ready for that and wasn't honest with you about it, so I hope you made that clear to her because you are not responsible for her emotions if she's saying, "yes," to a threesome. Saw similar situation happen between two friends and some bar skank one morning cause the skank was cool but my friend wasn't, so she ran out the front door of the house we were partying at all cryin and shit with everyone in unison saying if you're not ready you're not ready. Funny shit to see just after sunrise and shot number 20 was just done....ahh, the Jager days.
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