Ah, the words of bullies, jerks, and hatemongers everywhere: "But it doesn't hurt you, don't take it so seriously!" Anyone sees right through such cries in normal discourse, and such claims don't hold water in the virtual space, either. Rubbish is rubbish, online or off.
The good folks at Flame Warriors have a picture much more apt than anything I could draw:
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Don't be that guy.
Danth