I’ve only watched the first 1/4ish if this and may not be able to finish it partly because I am going be disagreeing with most of it
Asmongold is right that women want to be approached by men they find attractive and not be approached by men they find very unattractive or creepy. That’s a fucking duh
But in the middle there’s the rest of us. That being generally fairly average looking dudes who have clean clothes on, are hygienic, and generally look like a professional that can exist in a social society without causing problems whereever they go. And that’s the majority of people and the majority of rejections
And in that majority, how the girl does the rejection and how the girl and the guy handles and categorizes the rejection is entirely dependent on each person’s social skills and ability to read people. The other commenter in the video who is some content creator who I don’t watch and thus don’t know his name said, it’s pretty obvious if a girl you are talking to is interested in you. And he’s right, it should be, but it’s not for a lot of guys because they have garbage social skills which includes the ability to read others
And more importantly, this group of guys (or girls, this doesn’t go one way), not only would miss signs of interest, they would also miss signs of disinterest and keep pursuing
And those types of guys are who the “put on blast” videos are about. And even though there are a lot of guys who couldn’t read a room to save their life, the amount of guys targeted by some tik tok video or Reddit thread making fun of them is like 0.0000000001% of the population
So having a video making fun of you is a non issue. And even being rejected in an embarrassing way is a non-issue. Guys are getting brainwashed by the thousands to THINK it’s an issue though. Know why? Because a video of a girl politely telling a guy “no thanks” and the guy saying “no problem” isn’t fucking interesting. It won’t go viral
So only these (sometimes crazy themselves) girls freaking the F out and rejecting a dude in some embarrassing way go viral, and dumb gullible guys thinks this is somehow the norm in our society
No, countless average looking men are being rejected by thousands in polite ways and accepting that rejection in polite ways. It is happening dozens of times a night in bars and clubs across the country. This fear of being put into a video for approaching a girl may as well be a fear of getting buttfucked by Bigfoot. It’s probably not going to happen to you
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