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To expand on that, a tall guy who insecure and doesn’t have his height at all influence his confidence would be like a black guy being insecure about his dick size
Most people are going to assume due to an unfair, and largely untrue (on an aggregate level I’ve heard there’s very little difference in size) stereotype that the dude has at least an above average sized dick
So to me it would be completely foolish for a black person to be like “Hey, I want to set the record straight right now, I actually have a slightly below-average sized dick. And I’m actually insecure about it”
Like why TF would you do that? The perception helps you, at least go with it with strangers, even if it isn’t fair or correct. Sure, you will maybe have that convo with like a girlfriend or something if it bothers you. But there is no reason not to use people’s perception of you as a confidence boost even if you don’t agree with the reason for them having it
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