[magnetaress]

A layperson may resent doing. An enlightened person simply understands the doing. A lay person seeks and needs pleasure. An enlightened person knows the pleasure, lives the pleasure. A lay person avoids suffering, is hindered. An enlightened being suffers being and lives the suffering. Understands the suffering. And it's source. Without judgment. To make the best choice. Or simply accept and experience it.

There is much more. This however is a basic understanding of enlightenment.