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Lol listening to it again to check I got to the part where she says something like “people should not be told unhelpful things like ‘grow a thicker skin’ when they are THREATENED”
I’m thinking what??? That’s not saying it’s right or good to be threatened, but to grow a thicker skin is not unhelpful. You absolutely should try to grow a thicker skin, if for nothing else than to have a more clear mind to protect oneself if the threat were credible or against future threats. As opposed to what? Grow a weaker skin? Stay the exact same?
Don’t ever suggest resiliency. Or for them to get better at the game because they’re bad. Because their brains just can’t handle it
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