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Originally Posted by shovelquest
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aw she likes you
I bet you're a lot of fun nopenope
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I just try to be someone that someone wants to have around, guy or girl doesn’t matter. Trying to make people laugh, ask them about themselves or their week or ask them about things I think they will like talking about
This one is a licensed therapist though, so she is very good at asking questions to get me to talk about myself. So sometimes I will have to be like “Hey stop that. You’re too damn good at asking questions. Don’t use your therapist tricks on me, I am immune”
The problem is she’s going to leave me eventually over not wanting to get married or have kids. She already asked me once here if I ever wanted to have a kid and I had to be honest and say “no, even as a kid I never had that dream of raising a kid someday. I always felt weird and alone when all my friends talked about wanting the white picket fence and family with kids and I didn’t”
The last gal I dated for 8ish months left mostly over me not wanting to have kids. And I can’t blame them. Dating girls in their 30’s is very different than 20’s. They are looking to settle down, their bio clock is ticking. I am in a very good position now in terms of situation and I want to keep my options open. I like the idea of being able to pursue whoever I want, whenever I want, without cheating. So I would prefer to stay single through most of my prime 40’s if possible, maybe with the occasional relationships
But I feel bad, like I am wasting their time, and they don’t have time to waste like they used to. But I am also open to having my mind changed too /shrug