I ended up using VMWare fusion with Windows ARM VM. EQ runs prefect.
Check out that YouTube video if you need help. VMWare made Fusion free for personal use, and when you create your first VM it asks you if you want to download and use Windows. I just followed through with installing windows. Made a local user account, not a Microsoft account. Then copied EQEmu folder to the VM.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9TUIVDUjto