Gentlemen, your root problem here is your method of competition: debating does not work. When the other person doesn't want to lose an argument, they can either write walls of semi-relevant rationalizations or take emotional shots or both. Your resolutions to be more polite will not really help, because your egos will still be on the line, the conflict will not be resolved, and you will both get frustrated again.
So, stop arguing and actually put your statements to the test, i.e. try ENC/ENC/CLR with MAG and SHM and measure. Of course there are still problems - the choice of zone and players will definitely matter - but over time the answer should become much more clear. I think you will find it a much more interesting and fun way to proceed.
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