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Originally Posted by unsunghero [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Aesthetics matters to many men, but it’s usually not the main objective, nor is it for me. I like to be fast and functionally strong first and foremost, and to try to do it in a way that is the most aesthetic secondly. Not caring about aesthetics is perfectly fine, but it will usually result in neglected and over-used muscles creating a weird look (too small legs, arms, shoulders, or whatever). If someone doesn’t care about that, even though it probably could be fixed with some small adjustments, then you do you, I say to them

Anyway, I’m gonna be gone from here I think for a bit. It’ll be up to whoever to keep this thread going and my guess is it’s gonna die. I will prolly try to post one more “Goal achieved: best shape of my life at 40” pic around when I turn 40 this year, a few months out.

Right when I started to mention being invested and emotionally vulnerable to gf she got distant and wanted a break. That was this week. Stung a bit NGL. I couldn’t help but get clingy, she was pretty awesome

Anyway, Tinder to the rescue as I cycle through the stages of grief. Meeting this pilipina hottie this coming wknd, she texts a lot. Wanted to put a pic of me and her on fb bc gf still on fb as friend, but not spiteful and passive aggressive like that

Anyway, sorry I’m not gone but basically am for a bit

free bike lol