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Originally Posted by Trexller
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yeah..
I've got real problems with letting a woman down easily. If she's crushin and im not i try to keep goin until things get too heavy, then i do something stupid because I feel trapped. not that im opposed to a relationship, but like someone in love with you, when you aren't in love with them, can get kinda creepy pretty fast.
but I also have a problem: I can't say no to a woman who is ready to go. If some woman is tryin to bang, there's like a 97% chance that I'll be like, "Hell Yeah lets go"
always ends the same, she gets hurt
maybe Unsung will weigh in here
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Rejecting or breaking it off is like firing someone, it sucks. The best approach is just to rip that bandaid off and be honest, but I understand the desire to do something stupid to push them away instead, it can result in less confrontation than saying “sorry I’m just not that into you”. Doing something stupid gets them asking what’s wrong with you. Rejecting them gets them thinking what’s wrong with them
But I still say honesty is the best policy