Being masculine or effeminate doesn't make someone disordered. It is possible to take even generslly healthy traits detached from sex and sexuality to dysfunctional extremes.
Confidence. For example.
Or paranoia. Or obsession, even with something like hygiene.
Politics is what labels trans as disordered or "special".
There's no accounting for taste, male or female. The disorder is when one makes demands of others to make up for their own shortcomings and inadequacies. That is a two way street.
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