7/10 chance you are over weight so ima go with it. Judging by your attitude, ima say its gotten in the way of your sex life. Love is blind but casual sex has pretty high standards, eh? Dont be a bitter man.
I found this online.
1. They Generalize
Someone who’s bitter and jaded is generally so as the result of one or multiple experiences.
Yet, they’re often not just angry with the individual who’s wronged them, but whole groups of people.
They might feel anger toward all men, all women, all members of a particular profession, or maybe even a certain ethnic group, all because of an experience they’ve had with just one person.
Or, they might just think that absolutely everyone in the world is out to get them.
They will often make sweeping statements that show they’ve judged a person or situation without bothering to try to understand the circumstances.
2. They Hold Grudges
We all get angry sometimes, but misunderstandings and arguments are normally cleared up and forgotten.
Even if two people don’t see eye to eye, they understand that there’s no point in wasting their energy by holding a grudge.
Those who are bitter, however, will find it very difficult to let something go, even when everyone else has forgotten about it.
3. They Like The Sound Of Their Own Voice
A bitter person’s favorite topic of conversation is likely to be things that have happened to them.
They generally won’t ask questions about your life and things that are going on with you. They just want to complain to you about what someone said to them, something that happened to them, or just the state of the world in general and how it affects them negatively.
4. They’re Jealous
Rather than be happy for a friend or colleague when they get a promotion or when something’s going well in their life, they’re just jealous that things aren’t going as well for them.
5. But They Make No Changes
They think they should be the one getting the promotion or getting engaged, but they take no steps to change things to help them get there. They stay exactly where they are, wondering why things don’t fall into their lap.
6. They Seek Attention
A bitter person isn’t likely to keep quiet about the way they feel. When they feel like life is treating them particularly unfairly, they want sympathy and reassurance that what they’re feeling is justified, because deep down they know it isn’t.
7. They Struggle To Accept Advice
Whilst they love to complain, if a friend that genuinely cares about them tries to offer some helpful advice, they quickly go on the defensive.
They are blind to those people in their lives who do care about them, focusing on those that they feel are out to get them.
8. They Don’t Like Cheerful People
Being around cheerful, optimistic people throws their behavior into sharp relief, meaning they’re confronted by their own negative attitude; not something they want to face up to. So they tend to just avoid naturally happy people.
This can mean they start to become pretty anti-social, preferring to spend their evenings mulling over why the world is against them rather than being out socializing and making the most of life.
9. They Never Congratulate Others
Their jealousy means that they find it difficult to genuinely congratulate anyone else on their skills or achievements. You never hear them say the words “well done,” and they wouldn’t dream of giving anyone a thumbs up.
10. They Gossip
They love to spread stories they’ve heard about things that other people have done wrong. They are the person you’ll find at the water cooler or down the pub spreading that juicy bit of gossip they’ve heard about a co-worker.
You are SOOOOOO BITTER. lol
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