not sure why you are implying i dont get asked constantly. lookit you, bringing it up!
it comes up because y'all are obsessed. esp. you. that you can't see a difference between playful discourse (rendered defensively on my part, and for the benefit of any vulnerable onlooker including a group of women I know use this board who have denigrated their self-conception to fit in with vicious people like yourself) and a weirdo following people around showing them his nutsack is your problem.
Anyway we talked about this yesterday, just come off it. You admit it breaks your brain just the fact that we are who we are. Can't even have a discussion with someone who shares quite a few opinions with you because you get so awfully upset about the fact I've done something you can't understand in order to improve my quality of life and impact on the world. I am much better off like this but still you are enraged because of some loose, semireligious concept of "fundamental corruption". There is nothing we can do about that. Your anxiety. If you aren't in it to harm others, particularly people who are vulnerable, just swallow it.
And if you can't handle being around particular minorities and behaving with civility, box yourself into an ever smaller castle. Leave the board. Don't sally out with nothing but rage hoping to cause destruction that will render the world simpler for you. Maybe even this asylum is too big for you. You would be better off to grow into that bare minimum of tolerating others, though. Even the "uppity" minorities.
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