[xmaerx]

Definitely plenty of decent humans playing, but the attentiveness is lacking across the board. I've commented on it repeatedly when I throw around "good players" or "bad players", and attentiveness is always #1; The amount of time it takes you to do the basic tasks expected of your class.. which is all of the tasks, for every class except pullers, and the frequency of which you need to be reminded.

Being attentive is the overlap between a good player and a good person, because there is no argument that can be made in defense of someone who gives zero shits about wasting other people's time. If you can't commit your attention and you're just soaking xp or loot, you should be forthright with your group about that. Don't just candidly join and grope your groin.

I know people have important shit going on, but it's entirely reasonable for a person with equally important shit going on to get irritated when their *properly portioned* free time is being squandered, by whatever flavor of unsavory group play is on the table.