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Originally Posted by Topgunben
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Sometimes I wonder, and this is really just speculation, but do trans people feel that they need to switch to the opposite sex because they feel they are unable to compete with the same sex with regards to coupling? Is there some type of built in evolutionary switch that forces these types of thoughts, all the while being unable to make the physical change because our biology is so different than it was millions upon millions of years ago?
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this has been addressed with the jenner comment, but here's a case study -- i did well with girls, but never knew what to do with them. I was always a "pretty boy", valedictorian and what not and had plenty of offers. after courting and getting into bed I just couldn't penetrate a girl, despite many attempts. I tried picking up one-nighters from a bar, I tried building rapport over a long time. I tried girls in my race, outside my race. Ugly girls, skinny girls, beautiful intellectual rich girls, greasy party girls. Kind girls and rude girls. Nothing worked and humiliating experiences stacked up and, even worse, I always felt as though I was manipulating these women and experimenting on them like some sort of creep. Even tho in my heart i wasn't creepin it just wasn't genuine. I thought of myself as heterosexual for a pretty long time but it just didn't work right.