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Originally Posted by alphys
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It’s just so difficult because she knew what this meant to me, I’ve been taking about it f or years and it’s wasn’t about max level, just that I wanted the real experience again like in 1999.
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Well, hold up there. It sounds like you aren't understanding what it meant to her that both of her parents spent very little quality time with her during her childhood because they were too busy with their computers. Those are years she is never going to get back. She has chosen to spend the rest of her years with you.
So, if you can't get that baggage addressed, then any computer time you have to yourself, she is going to go down that emotional rabbit hole and you are going to make her re-live it. Not purposely, mind you... but the parallels will be inevitable. If you leave her or divorce her over it, then once again the most important person in her life chose a computer over her, so that really isn't an option unless you truly do not care about her emotional well-being.
From everything else you have said, sounds like you need to give up on a dumb elf sim and enjoy those precious moments with her and your children. The years go by fast, man. To be honest, and we all know this is true no matter how much it hurts to admit, she has done you a favor by keeping you out of this time-sink.
Consider yourself lucky, and pray for the rest of us that we all get the help we need.
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