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Old 05-26-2020, 07:44 PM
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I have tried numerous times over the years to join guilds and get social and make friends to make this dream come true.... and I’ve failed miserably.
I’m social and friendly enough in a day to day pug style kinda way, but seem to lack the ability or desire to make long term pals.
Could you clarify "failed miserably"?

I've seen anti-social and not friendly people do ok in guilds [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.] I'm not saying they're popular (everyone prefers the friendly/sociable type), but my point is that the bar for not getting kicked out of a guild is pretty low. If you can do your "job" in the game, don't shout out offensive slurs repeatedly in guild chat, and keep your out-of-raid time from becoming a Rant and/or Flame, you'll probably do ok in most guilds.

I guess really what I'm asking is: do you not want to be in a guild, and if so why not?
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