You have to understand this server has a mix of people. Some ... make this game their life, and then react (very strongly) here in the forums to anything that threatens to change their "way of life". Also, as you might imagine such people don't live the happiest of lives, and so maybe have a negative bent to everything they do/say.
And those sorts tend to be over-represented in the forums, because they have the time to post here. Your best bet is to just be aware of that, ignore the "sky is falling" posters, and enjoy the great server (soon to be two servers!) we have here
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