https://www.project1999.com/forums/member.php?u=170457
Lysander is not a throwaway account. He's been on the server since 2017. Main is a Necro.
Profile Page has had 1,385 visits. Seems like a lot of people visiting lately!~
In all seriousness, 100% chance at least a few of his Main-Necromancer's current guildies have put two and two together with his server name and this legit-but-supertrashy move has permanently colored their opinion of the guy. (One or two may have nudged him into making this public post - but those 'friends' are not your friends, OP. They are schadenfreude at your expense right now.)