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Originally Posted by skarlorn
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I don't find modern women puzzling and I don't find the divorce epidemic puzzling, either.
The real topic of interest to me is how to grow a deep relationship with another human and have it survive the crux of sexlessness which seems to occur for most. It takes a specific type of woman and not all women are matured to the point of being ready for this. Our culture keeps people trapped in an adolescent sexual neverland fantasy for a long time which manifests differently for men and women. However, success still happens. Patriam seems to have some things figured out in this field of fuckling, so I try and listen to that guy.
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Titalatingly woke.
I can't really add to this. I'm apparently "hot" but also crazy. I have woken to the realization that no relationship will ever attain perfection, but the minute two people stop striving to better themselves and their partners, their relationships die.
On the other hand as a neuter, I find sex and bodily intimacy artificial and disturbing on some level. It always bothered me though. I never enjoyed having sex with women much. I don't know if I could bring the sex to a relationship with a man. It'd be awkward at best.
So trans sex is different than straight sex in many ways. It's not exactly gay or queer guy sex either. I want to explore this a bit more but I'm not really ready to do a public deep dive here. Suffice it to say I deliberately remain chaste and avoid emotional intimacy because I am not sure it's worth it. I'm not against it. I just deeply question what value I bring to that equation and whether it's worth it to engage in these behaviors with others. I don't really need validation. I do enjoy teasing though. I suppose the right person could come along and playfully engage me in intimacy.
But I'm not looking for it. Or needing it. Not sure if I'm marriagable by any standards.
None of this has much bearing on the social issues around marriages and monogamy. It's just my anecdotal experience as a trans women who obsessively posts on p99 about politics and philosophy. So by definition you can't even reliably point to my experiences as an example of average behavior.