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Originally Posted by Patriam1066
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How do I make my son pursue someone I want him to pursue
Thanks in advance
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Super Easy, as a Parent embrace your sons choice WHOLEHEARTEDLY , works 80% of the time
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And when I say WHOLEHEARTEDLY , I mean the full package:
Walk outs in the Park, going to restaurants together, to the movies, to the club, to the stadium, and specially, the ultra big killer, hang out with your sons choice parents.
Like HARDCORE hanging out!
Be exhultant and smile a lot, share family time as much as possible, making it sure that you make your son know that you believe his choice is not only the best choice ever, but that you are truly overexcitedly happy about it.
This is the best outcome, as it weeds out any classical rebellious tendencies your son might have in choosing that type of partner.
You can usually see the whole "glam" of the relationship fall apart during the coming months, super duper easier if you actually hang out alone with your sons choice, like surprise pick me ups to go to the mall, buy groceries or drop by at their place with takeout and movies.
Problem is you actually being up to it, but have seen it work wonders.
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Interestingly enough, parents hatred usually cements relationships further in the short term from what I have seen.
You owe me about 2000$ worth of therapy too, though if I lived in the us probably around 50k to 75k