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I like TAKP a lot. Pop is kinda low, but that will probably change and actually has its benefits imo. Boxing is limited to 3, and you do see a lot of trios during low levels, but a lot of people do it mostly for convenience rather than as a lifestyle. There's some good guilds and a lot of raiding. The server is flawless as far as functionality, seems to have very good devs. The community is awesome, very friendly and laid back.
If you have a religious object to OTHER people boxing, then yeah you won't like that aspect of it. You don't have to box if you don't want to, and there's a rather large exp bonus for going to 4 or above in a group, so singles are usually always welcome.
IDGAF about the cats on the moon thing, you people are ok with all kinds of dumb crap if its elveses and hobbittses but CATS? omg no.
Also...PoP is coming, and imo that's the pinnacle of EQ.
Really the only drawback is that halfings can be rangers, but whattaya gonna do.