You know Kink.com stuff was pretty hot from the Bay Area. Now they closed down...Its like the professionals have been moved out so some nerdy tech want-to-be can try to take their place....
Being a dom that can suduce kinky sub people is a cool kids club your more or less born into. And IDK who the fuck these guys think they are to pull it off so seamlessly. It just
happens to be subordinates at work all the time eh?
Just hire a hooker and get over yourself.
I blame the way the BDSM community talks about consent. Like you get them to sign a forum in a office setting and then all bets are off. Its not supposed to be a mechanical business agreement -- unless you are hiring a hooker.
I'm assuming a lot of good will on behalf of these dominator wannabe nerds. Maybe they totally get it -- but get off on the power trip of coercing those that work under them to do stuff they don't want to. This is actually more likely.
And that's why I can't agree with the
Anti-Feminist article published by the NYT today:
Quote:
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What happened to women’s agency? That’s what I find myself wondering as I hear story after story of adult women who helplessly acquiesce to sexual demands. I find it especially curious given that a majority of women I know have been in situations in which men have come on to them — at work or otherwise. They have routinely said, “I’m not interested” or “Get your hands off me right now.” And they’ve taken the risk that comes with it.
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Or maybe -- and this is just a maybe...the guy grabbing her ass should take the risk. Not her for choosing to work there.
Maybe if the author was born into a fuck up family where her step dad molested her or something -- should have a better understanding of why standing up to certain kinds of guys is extremely difficult for certain kinds of women. Even if that is not ALL women.
But I do agree with the due process point she made....I just found this quote very left field.