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Originally Posted by Jimjam
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The need to claim/brag about what to some posters may seem mundane achievements (working in an office, wearing pointy shoes, needing less sleep than a girlfriend), alongside a tendency to project feelings of mad, bad and sadness suggests a fragile, external locus of self esteem and need for validation, coupled with a sense of vulnerability.
As such, I agree with Zade, we should be supportive to our little Hentai elf and be happy that Lulz is finding niches in which help him form a positive self image.
To Lulz I say: congratulations on your recent life successes, but putting other people down only raises yourself in an ordinal sense. Self advancement isn't a zero sum game, and does not need to come at the expense of others. Focus on the positives and keep up with your social hobbies. Enjoy those secret hip hop parties of yours!
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I kow we all like to troll and "bully" eachother at times, but you know what there is some truth to what Jimjam says here. I even agree with the sentiment of Pokesan's fake "bully" narrative to a degree, I just wish he had applied it to an actual bullied person. So much wasted emotion on such an unworthy elf.
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I also think anyone can be at a fragile point in life so I try to remain empathetic enough to know when to let off the throttle so-to-speak when I see someone is face down in the dirt, struggling to get up.
I too like Lulz, and although his RL posts make me uncomfortable at times there are some funny inadvertant elements to them which is they actually plant seeds of enragement in some people's minds for some reason. I just accept him and his RL boast-posts for their good and bad.